الغيبة والطعن في الناس "الذين لا يذنبون وقد وُهبوا السلامة منها فليترحموا على المذنبين. وليكن شكرهم نعيمهم، وليمنعهم من عيب الآخرين"

[1] The habit of fault finding and backbiting has become so common that even the feeling of its evilness has disappeared. And at present neither the high avoid it nor the low; neither the high position of the pulpit prevents it nor the sacredness of the mosque. Whenever a few companions sit together their topic of conversation and engaging interest is just to discuss the faults of their opponents with added colourisation, and to listen to them attentively. Although the fault finder is himself involved in the faults which he picks up in others, yet he does not like that his own faults should he exposed. In such a case, he should have consideration for similar feelings in others and should avoid searching for their faults and hurting their feelings. He should act after the proverb: “Do not do unto others what you do not want others to do unto you.” Backbiting is defined as the exposure of the fault of a brother-in-faith with the intent to vilify him in such a way as to irritate him, whether it be by speaking, acting, implication or suggestion. Some people take backbiting to cover only that which is false or contrary to fact. According to them to relate what was seen or heard, exactly as it was, is not backbiting, and they say that they are not backbiting but only relating exactly what they saw or heard. But in fact backbiting is the name of this very relating of the facts, because if it is not factually correct it would be false accusation and wrong blame. It is related about the Prophet that he said : “Do you know what backbiting is?” People said, “Allāh and His Prophet know better.” Then he said, “Backbiting means that you say about your brother a thing which pains him.” Someone said, “But what if I say what is actually true about him?” The Prophet replied, “It is backbiting only when it is factually true, otherwise you would be accusing him falsely.” There are many causes for indulging in backbiting, and because of this a man commits it sometimes knowingly and sometimes unknowingly. Abū Ḥamīd al-Ghazālī has recounted these causes in detail in his book Iḥyā’ ‘ulūmu’d-dīn. A few of the important ones are : 1) To make fun of anyone or to make him appear abased. 2) To make people laugh and to display one’s own jolliness and high spiritedness. 3) Expressing one’s feelings under the influence of rage and anger. 4) To establish one’s own superiority by speaking ill of others. 5) To disprove one’s connection or involvement in a matter; namely that a particular evil was not committed by oneself but by someone else. 6) To associate oneself with some group when in their company in order to avoid strangeness with them. 7) To belittle a person from whom it is feared that he will expose some fault of one’s. 8) To defeat a competitor in the same calling. 9) To seek position in the audience of someone in power. 10) To express sorrow by saying it is sad that so-and-so has fallen in such and such a sin. 11) To express astonishment, for example, to say it is wonderful that so and so has done this. 12) To name the committer of an act when expressing anger over it. However, in some cases fault finding or criticising does not fall under backbiting: 1) If the oppressed complains of the oppressor in order to seek redress, it is not backbiting. Allāh says about it: Loveth not Allāh open utterance of evil in speech except by one who hath been wronged . . . (Qur’ān, 4:148) 2) To relate anyone’s fault while giving advice is not backbiting because dishonesty and duplicity is not permissible in counselling. 3) If in connection with seeking the requirements of a religious commandment the naming of a particular individual cannot be avoided, then to state the fault of such person to the extent necessary would not be backbiting. 4) To relate the misappropriation or dishonesty committed by someone with a view to saving a Muslim brother from harm would not he backbiting. 5) To relate the fault of someone before one who can prevent him from committing it is not backbiting. 6) Criticism and expression of opinion about a relater of traditions is not backbiting. 7) If a person is well acquainted with someone’s shortcoming, then to relate such a fault in order to define his personality, for example, describing a deaf, dumb, lame or handless person as thus, is not backbiting. 8) To describe any fault of a patient before a physician for purposes of treatment is not backbiting. 9) If someone claims wrong lineage then to expose his correct lineage is not backbiting. 10) If the life, property or honour of someone can be protected only by informing him of some fault, it would not be backbiting. 11) If two persons discuss a fault of another which is already known to both it would not be backbiting, although to avoid discussing it is better, since it is possible one of the two might have forgotten it. 12) To expose the evils of one who openly commits evils is not backbiting as the tradition runs : “There is no backbiting in the case of he who has torn away the veil of shamefulness.”