Entering in the Chambers of Women
Al-Kāfi|Volume 5|Book 3|Chapter 168
3- عِدَّةٌ مِنْ أَصْحَابِنَا عَنْ أَحْمَدَ بْنِ مُحَمَّدٍ عَنِ ابْنِ مَحْبُوبٍ عَنْ أَبِي أَيُّوبَ الْخَزَّازِ عَنْ أَبِي عَبْدِ اللهِ (عَلَيْهِ السَّلام) قَالَ يَسْتَأْذِنُ الرَّجُلُ إِذَا دَخَلَ عَلَى أَبِيهِ وَلا يَسْتَأْذِنُ الأبُ عَلَى الابْنِ قَالَ وَيَسْتَأْذِنُ الرَّجُلُ عَلَى ابْنَتِهِ وَأُخْتِهِ إِذَا كَانَتَا مُتَزَوِّجَتَيْنِ.
3. Ahmad ibn Muhammad has narrated from ibn Faddal from abu Jamilah from Muhammad ibn Ali al-Halabiy who has said the following: “I once asked Abu ‘Abd Allah عليه السلام, if a man is required to ask permission from his father. He (the Imam) said, ‘Yes, I would ask permission from my father and my mother was not with him. She was my father’s wife. My mother had died when I was a boy. I did not like to disturb their privacy and they also did not like it. It is very correct and fine to say Salam (the phrase of offering greeting of peace).'"
- Mirʾāt al-ʿUqūl fī Sharḥ Akhbār Āl al-Rasūl (20/360)
- Ṣaḥīḥ al-Kāfī, vol. 3, p. 76