Chapter on Miscellaneous Matters
Man Lā Yaḥḍuruh al-Faqīh|Volume 3|Book 3|Chapter 45
وَ رَوَى صَالِحُ بْنُ عُقْبَةَ عَنْ سُلَيْمَانَ بْنِ صَالِحٍ عَنْ أَبِي عَبْدِ اَللَّهِ عَلَيْهِ اَلسَّلاَمُ قَالَ: سُئِلَ عَنْ رَجُلٍ يَنْكِحُ جَارِيَةَ اِمْرَأَتِهِ ثُمَّ يَسْأَلُهَا أَنْ تَجْعَلَهُ فِي حِلٍّ فَتَأْبَى فَيَقُولُ إِذاً لَأُطَلِّقَنَّكِ وَ يَجْتَنِبُ فِرَاشَهَا فَتَجْعَلُهُ فِي حِلٍّ قَالَ "هَذَا غَاصِبٌ فَأَيْنَ هُوَ عَنِ اَللُّطْفِ".
Salih ibn Uqbah narrated from Sulayman ibn Salih from Abu Abdullah عليه السلام who was asked about a man who engages in intercourse with his wife's bondwoman and then asks his wife to pardon him, but she refuses. He then says: "If you do not pardon me, I will divorce you," and he avoids her bed until she pardons him. Imam عليه السلام said: "This man is an oppressor. Where is his kindness?"
- Ṣaḥīḥ al-Faqīh, p. 290