Chapter on Etiquettes of Acts That Require Purification
Tahdhīb al-Aḥkām|Volume 1|Book 1|Chapter 15
سَعْدٌ عَنْ أَحْمَدَ عَنِ اَلْحَسَنِ بْنِ عَلِيِّ بْنِ فَضَّالٍ عَنْ يُونُسَ بْنِ يَعْقُوبَ قَالَ: قُلْتُ لِأَبِي عَبْدِ اَللَّهِ عَلَيْهِ اَلسَّلاَمُ اَلْمَرْأَةُ تَغْسِلُ فَرْجَ زَوْجِهَا فَقَالَ« وَ لِمَ مِنْ سُقْمٍ» قُلْتُ لاَ قَالَ« مَا أُحِبُّ لِلْحُرَّةِ أَنْ تَفْعَلَ فَأَمَّا اَلْأَمَةُ فَلاَ تَضُرُّهُ» قَالَ قُلْتُ لَهُ أَ يَغْتَسِلُ اَلرَّجُلُ بَيْنَ يَدَيْ أَهْلِهِ فَقَالَ« نَعَمْ مَا يُفْضِي بِهِ أَعْظَمُ».
Sa'd, from Ahmad, from Al-Hasan ibn Ali ibn Faddal, from Yunus ibn Ya'qub, who said:
I said to Abu Abdillah عليه السلام: "Can a woman wash her husband's private parts?" Imam عليه السلام replied: "Why? Is it due to an illness?" I said: "No." Imam عليه السلام said: "I do not like a free woman to do so. However, as for a bondwoman, it does not harm him." I said to Imam عليه السلام: "Can a man perform ghusl (ritual bathing) in front of his wife?" Imam عليه السلام said: "Yes, for what he exposes in front of her is even greater (compared to ghusl)."
- Tahdhīb al-Aḥkām fī Sharḥ al-Muqniʿah, vol. 1, p. 379
- Ṣaḥīḥ al-Tahdhīb, p. 50