Stipulations in Marriage: The Permissible and Impermissible ones

Al-Kāfi|Volume 5|Book 3|Chapter 66
Al-Kāfi

Volume 5, Book 3, Chapter 66

Stipulations in Marriage: The Permissible and Impermissible ones

4- مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ يَحْيَى عَنْ أَحْمَدَ بْنِ مُحَمَّدٍ عَنْ عَلِيِّ بْنِ الْحَكَمِ عَنْ مُوسَى بْنِ بَكْرٍ عَنْ زُرَارَةَ قَالَ سُئِلَ أَبُو جَعْفَرٍ (عَلَيْهِ السَّلام) عَنِ الْمَهَارِيَّةِ يَشْتَرِطُ عَلَيْهَا عِنْدَ عُقْدَةِ النِّكَاحِ أَنْ يَأْتِيَهَا مَتَى شَاءَ كُلَّ شَهْرٍ وَكُلَّ جُمْعَةٍ يَوْماً وَمِنَ النَّفَقَةِ كَذَا وَكَذَا قَالَ لَيْسَ ذَلِكَ الشَّرْطُ بِشَيْ‏ءٍ وَمَنْ تَزَوَّجَ امْرَأَةً فَلَهَا مَا لِلْمَرْأَةِ مِنَ النَّفَقَةِ وَالْقِسْمَةِ وَلَكِنَّهُ إِذَا تَزَوَّجَ امْرَأَةً فَخَافَتْ مِنْهُ نُشُوزاً أَوْ خَافَتْ أَنْ يَتَزَوَّجَ عَلَيْهَا أَوْ يُطَلِّقَهَا فَصَالَحَتْهُ مِنْ حَقِّهَا عَلَى شَيْ‏ءٍ مِنْ نَفَقَتِهَا أَوْ قِسْمَتِهَا فَإِنَّ ذَلِكَ جَائِزٌ لا بَأْسَ بِهِ.
4. Muhammad ibn Yahya has narrated from Ahmad ibn Muhammad from Ali ibn al-Hakam from Musa ibn Bakr from Zurarah who has said the following: “Abu Abu Ja’far عليه السلام, was asked about the case of a man who married a woman who could only be visited during the day because of a condition at the time of forming marriage that he could visit her whenever he wants, like every month, every week one day with so and so amount for expenses. He (the Imam) said, ‘Such condition is not meaningful. If one marries a woman she must have what a woman must have for her expenses as well as her share of her time. However, if a woman marries and is afraid of his neglecting or that he may marry another woman or divorce her and she reaches a settlement in exchange for her rights like expenses or share of her time, such points are valid, and it is not unlawful.’”
  • Allamah Baqir al-Majlisi
    Mirʾāt al-ʿUqūl fī Sharḥ Akhbār Āl al-Rasūl (20/144)
  • Shaykh Baqir al-Behbudi
    Ṣaḥīḥ al-Kāfī, vol. 3, pp. 23, 24